what to say to someone you havent talked to in years

I want to go back in touch with one of my old friends. Yet, I haven't spoken to her for four years (I'one thousand 18 now, simply finished my A Level exams). I've been dying to contact her for ages, just I knew I ought to look until the exams were finished.
Now they take, I don't know what to do. 4 years ago we were really good mates (we went to the same primary school, just not the same secondary). I stopped contact with her though, considering I was really depressed and couldn't be bothered going out anymore.

We had so much in mutual, I'd love to speak to her again, perchance fifty-fifty try to get things back to the way they were (although I accept she's probably moved on a lot in four years!). So much has happened in four years, I want to find out what she's been up to, there's so much to tell and to hear, then much to catch upward on ... if she wants to. She but lives two roads abroad from me as well.

What do you remember I should do? I want to text her, merely I experience a bit awkward. What would I say?

Stand up ominously outside of her house wearing a hoodie, only don't let her encounter your face. Continue following her around while keeping distance. Then when she least expects it, run upwardly to her and lower your hood and then say "I'm dorsum".

I recently bumped into someone who I haven't spoken to in nearly six years and we only had a cursory conversation about what'southward been going on in our lives regarding uni/higher/jobs. And then the bus came and I got on.

I was in a similar position a few years ago (sadly, it didn't work out too as I'd hoped, but that'due south a different story). Basically, I started with expected "Hi, I know nosotros oasis't spoken in a while", and so said things about I how regretted nosotros hadn't kept in touch (and why), why they were important to me in the past, why I wanted to talk to them again and and so left the door open for them to make the adjacent motility so I didn't pressurise them. But plain that'southward a lot to put in 1 text, so I'd probably write an email/ alphabetic character instead.

Send her a text "Hey, long fourth dimension! How have your exams been?"

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'Hey how'due south it going- long time no see'

I'm in the same position as you. Merely just text them hi just asking how they've been. I had a actually skilful friend who left schoolhouse in year xi to go to college while I stayed at 6th grade. I recall virtually my erstwhile friends all the time and wonder if it would be weird to of a sudden talk to them subsequently a twelvemonth. I approximate they would become the message that you still want to be friends if you speak to them.

(Original post by night-blue)
I was in a similar position a few years ago (sadly, it didn't work out likewise as I'd hoped, simply that'south a different story). Basically, I started with expected "Hi, I know we haven't spoken in a while", then said things near I how regretted we hadn't kept in touch (and why), why they were important to me in the past, why I wanted to talk to them over again and and then left the door open for them to make the next move then I didn't pressurise them. Merely evidently that's a lot to put in one text, then I'd probably write an email/ letter instead.

Hmm that is a bit long though! Our friendship didn't end badly or anything, we just lost contact. I don't want to overwhelm her, but at the same time I don't want to completely castor over the fact that we haven't spoken for years

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Hmm that is a bit long though! Our friendship didn't end badly or annihilation, we just lost contact. I don't desire to overwhelm her, simply at the same time I don't desire to completely brush over the fact that we haven't spoken for years

I admit that it seems a bit overwhelming, merely that's just me and I felt it needed to be said. My friendship didn't stop badly either but I felt I could take done more than to keep it going then I didn't desire the other person to feel similar I felt I could ditch them so just expect them to talk to me again after all those years. So yes, you could with a unproblematic "Hey, how it's going, haven't talked to you in a while" but I think you lot practise even so need to add some comment apologising for not keeping in touch and and so maybe if your friendship does go strong again have a more than in depth chat nearly information technology later.

Kickoff with talking nearly things that happenes in your past like funny memories and stuff and then hopefully the conversation can keep on flowing from at that place. Peradventure go to an old pub or eating house you both unused to similar.

I havent talked to this guy since year viii
But i just started 6th form and had no thought that he was attending sixth class here and i was waiting to get picked up after sixth form and he was looking at me and i actually desire to go and talk to him only i dont know what to say

A uncomplicated 'Hey (name)! Long fourth dimension no speak! How you been? ' will do.

They will appreciate your efforts.

I'chiliad in the aforementioned position with a school friend. Nosotros used to be best friends but and then we moved up a year in school and spilt forms so I only come across her on Thursdays (pe) buy even and so she'southward with her friends. I thought of texting but just 'hullo' merely with a friend tat I haven't seen since primary school I put 'how-do-you-do *name*, how take you lot been?'

My friend hasn't talked to me much in a twelvemonth so in just started with 'hi' as we go to the same school merely with my friend I haven't seen since primary I started with 'hi *proper name* how are y'all?'

Uhm I really don't know how to give yous a response. I am in the same boat correct now. There was this guy I really liked but we only messaged until his grandma, which lived down the road from me, told me I could come up down to actually run into him, so I did, and it was the about awkward thing you would ever see. We were both shy people, I was 14, and he was xvi. Then he left, graduated loftier school, got a job. I am now 17 and he is 19. He just recently came down to stay with his grandma but didn't say hi to me. He left patently merely I really wanna talk to him and he merely now accustomed my facebook request but I don't know what to say to him.

Ship a long email to her explaining the stuff going on in your head and tell her that you want to hang out again. Though i think you lot must have already talked to her by now.😅

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